So procrastination can get you and also what I call "Lack of sustained effort." We have a limited amount of emotional energy on a daily basis. To download all photos or videos related to this article, select the links at the bottom of each section. And then number two, if we just avoid the things that terrify us, then we arethen we're not going to get stronger as a result of them. Perfectionism: Will I Ever Be Good Enough? Well, and I love how you say in that quote that I read that all of us have been pressed to our limits. This global contagion has created a veritable barometer to measure emotional strength in both myself and everyone I know. You can access the manual Finding Strength in the Lord: Emotional Resilienceas text or downloadable PDF. Developing healthy thinking patterns is one of many topics covered in Finding Strength in the Lord: Emotional Resilience, a manual and course offered by Self-Reliance Services of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints to help members and their friends adapt to challenges with courage and faith centered in the Savior. And I could say, "Well, clearly diet and exercise don't work because it's been a whole five minutes and five push ups later and I'm still the same." And we all know a little thing about vaccines right now, that's a very, very applicable analogy. I don't know, you know, howI'm sure that the spirit is powerful enough to break through those things. On the bottom left corner of the video, you should see a symbol of a gear for video settings. And you may not get an answer that moment, but I'm confident if you continually ask for that, if you're regularly ask for that, you are bound to have a tremendous spiritual experience where you feel Heavenly Father's love for you. They have a, it's called the Rainy Day Cavalcade, and it only comes out during the rain. And I really loved those, I wondered if you could explain a little bit about some of those roadblocks to personal competence. Exactly. And in Helaman chapter five, where Helaman encourages the sons to build theirto found themselves on the rock of Jesus Christ. Everything is spiritual, Morgan. My Self-Reliance Group [4:01] Exercise Faith in Jesus Christ [1:43] He Is Building a Palace [1:19] Mountains to Climb [5:05] Grateful in Any Circumstance [1:06] Like a Broken Vessel (part 2) I hope that was, I hope that is great." But then he ended up cutting wood, which is what he went up there for in the first place, and he loads his truck with wood. I lovethat kind of segues well into this idea of tenacity, which is something that you talk a lot about, you give several examples, including Thomas Edison. That's the whole point of the Savior's Atonement, right? It was, it was a bit of a tough time financially for us. One of the things sometimes I'll beI don't if "Criticized" is the right word, but when people will say, when I talk about mental health and the gospel, they'll say, "Well, don't just tell me to pray harder, and to read my scriptures more, because that's not a solution that doesn't, you know, that doesn't fix mental health, you need medication, you need therapy, and stuff like that.". Oh, great last name, I really appreciate yours. And I completely agree that that's how Heavenly Father hopes that we will feel and that's what He wants for us. And I think that we don't like to think that we're wrong, either. And I love that you ask everyone and it was the one I was the most prepared for. Recent major natural disasters coupled with the onset of the pandemic has really affected a number of individuals of all ages in my region, added Harding. I put [Doctrine and Covenants 6:36] there because one of the things youre talking about is recognizing inaccurate thinking patterns and to try and look to the Savior in every thought., During the weekly meetings, Valencia said, you talk about dealing with life and how to find strength through the teachings of Jesus Christ and support from other people., You dont have to share if you dont want to, she added, but you learn a lot about a lot of things from depression to exercise to taking care of your body to communication with other people. Perhaps you have begun to wander along strange roads feeling lost, what can you do? I know the Lord knew we needed the blessings found in the self-reliance groups at such a time as this. Lori Harding, Welfare and Self-Reliance Services Manager. Thank you, Your email address will not be published. Because if I take this from you, then I have to erase this line, and you're not going to achieve this thing.". Well, I should start by telling listeners that this is kind of a funny moment, because David and I have emailed back and forth for years now and this is the first time that I've ever seen his face. And He's going to say, "This is why, Morgan, when you prayed, and said, 'Heavenly Father, take this from me,'" He said, "No, I can't do that. And so I remember going there to the swim test for him. In fact, it was causing her not to feel anything. Whether you are currently feeling overwhelmed or not, these are great skills to have in your arsenal. But if you don't do this, then it's just going to create more fear for the next time. Download a photo or video by clicking or tapping on it. It's not the only answer, but it is definitely part of the answer. I don't know if that's part of the difficulties people need to experience in order to become more like their father in heaven, but just this idea that we are not worthy, we need to lose that idea. Because if we haven't learned yet, we're probably not going to learn.". In Section 121 in the Doctrine and Covenants it talks about our confidence waxing strong in the presence of God. I think I used an example in the book, which dates me from Happy Days. In addition to developing healthy thinking patterns, the Emotional Resilience manual includes resources for managing stress and anxiety, understanding sadness and depression, overcoming anger, managing addictive behaviors and building healthy relationships. By referring or linking you to this website, we do not endorse or guarantee this content, products, or services offered. My Self-Reliance Group And say, "You know what, He still feels that way about me so I can get up off the dirt and do something about it.". I know the Lord knew we needed the blessings found in the self-reliance groups at such a time as this., A prepared and thoughtful facilitator and fully engaged participants can create an environment where group members feel valued and cared for and where the Spirit can be present, states the manual. . What researchers have found is that the more that we're able to tolerate those things, the stronger we'll become. This workbook can help you learn and put into practice principles of faith, education, hard work, and trust in the Lord. They can also be viewed on the Gospel Library app under "Life Help." Physical copies of the manuals are available for purchase at Church distribution centers. I have been significantly impacted for the better from this course and have been able to apply many of these principles in various circumstances in my life., The program taught me so much about myself, how to process my emotions in healthy ways, and how to create intentional habits that lead to better wellness, said Alyssa Free, a young adult from Holladay, Utah. Well, I think your friends situation, you asked is that normal? And we certainly know people who are kind of stuck in that situation where they just feel like . Because it's funny that you said, you know, when you prayed and asked Heavenly Father to take this thing from you, because like I said, I've had these like health challenges. And this is something that I am super passionate about, I think Satan tries more than just about anything to make us not understand who we are, and that if we understood who we were, it would change everything. The Emotional Resilience Video Toolbox is a place where we will store short videos that teach skills and present concepts designed to help you increase your resilience, psychological flexibility, and capacity for problem solving. And you know, and this is going to become something that's a bigger problem.". Thank you so much, David. And we're just having a hard time describing it.". (My Foundation) Why is it so Hard to Quit? I don't know what I'm doing here. And that's another deception of Satan as well that all or nothing thinking. But I think it doesif we can change our perception on it, and say, "Well, maybe this is a blessing and an opportunity for me to get stronger," then maybe we approach it differently. If we intentionally do things that we shouldn't, and we've commit sin, and in those cases we can repent, but a lot of times, like you talked about, people with feelings of depression, oftentimes they describe a difficulty being able to feel the Spirit. But what if the blessing was having significant health challenges that were chronic and that ultimately led you to be more humble and patient. The welfare program stresses education, health, employment, family home production and storage, family finances, and spiritual strength.. And you have a quote that I think applies to this. I really, really appreciated it myself. Doing everything and taking advantage of every opportunity that I have when the Lord says, "Here's another chance to grow," instead of saying, "Well, that sounds really hard. Well, David, I wish that we had talked a while ago, that would have been helpful to me, but hopefully this will be helpful to somebody. To download media files, please first review and agree to the Terms of Use. To me it means to . So I wanted to start out, because in the book, you talk aboutyou open the book by talking about your personal response to COVID and the pandemic, and you write this which I thought would kind of set the stage for this conversation overallyou said, "Why do I tell you this experience? Download PDF. Thanks for having me. I know the Lord knew we needed the blessings found in the self-reliance groups at such a time as this., A prepared and thoughtful facilitator and fully engaged participants can create an environment where group members feel valued and cared for and where the Spirit can be present, states the manual. Credit: The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints A family smiles for a portrait in Ghana. The Church News is an official publication of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints. And I think if you lack confidence in that, I think one of the best things you can do is to pray your Heavenly Father and just say, "Heavenly Father, will you help me feel the way about myself that you feel about me?" Gardeners work to prepare the ground for General Conference. I love that. that's the difference, isit's not so much about the end, it's about the journey. I have a relative who moved to Germany where they are still in Covid lockdown. The Church's " Finding Strength in the Lord: Emotional Resilience " program is now available in English, French, Portuguese, Russian and Spanish. Other self-reliance programs offered by the Church include Personal Finances, Starting and Growing My Business, Find a Better Job and Education for Better Work.. And it says, "And then when the devil sends forth, his winds, his mighty winds, his shafts in the whirlwind," all those sorts of things, "He says then it will have no power over you, because of the foundation upon which you're built.". If you would like to stay on the page you are viewing please click Cancel. We use cookies to ensure that we give you the best experience on our website. So throughout this book you kind of offer ways toyou refer to a lot of roadblocks to emotional resiliency and ways to overcome those roadblocks. The Lord loves you, and He cares about your welfare.. And but Forky believes he's garbage, and he keeps trying to jump into the garbage can. And quite frankly, if we haven't learned our lesson by now, we probably won't learn it, I almost feel like going to Heavenly Father and saying, "Look, you can probably just take it now. Two Rooms Refurbished at Beehive House in Salt Lake City, When reporting about The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints, please use the complete name of the Church in the first reference. And I don'tI mean, at least in living memory, there's nothing that's affected us so globally. Okay, David, I have one last question for you before we get to our all in question. Style Guide Note:When reporting about The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints, please use the complete name of the Church in the first reference. He says, "I know what I'm doing. The emotional resilience materials are currently available in English, Spanish, Portuguese, French, Russian and other languages, with 10 additional languages forthcoming. And I know that's the way He still feels about me. You can read more from David on LDSpsychologist.com, and in his new book Enduring the Refiners Fire: Emotional Resilience for Latter-day Trials, which you can find on DeseretBook.com now. Your feelings are bound to happen, no matter what you do. No able to attend meetings. Right. And the systems that are designed to run for a very short period of time, it's kind of like, you know, flooring it in your car when you need to pass someone. So if we can learn to kind of almost embrace failure, like Thomas Edison did, he says "I haven't failed 9000 times, I just learned 9000 times how not to make a light bulb." The house stood until the adversity came. You are about to access Constant Contacts (http://visitor.constantcontact.com). Of Regrets and Resolutions (My Foundation) And so one of them is the idea of personal competencethat "I can do something." All of us have been pressed to our limits. And that's what you tried to get every single day, was "How do I get this?" I love that you have Amazon Prime. The manuals and videos are available as follows: Emotional Resilience is a 10-week course taught by Latter-day Saint volunteers. I bet we could do that." Procrastination, that's a killer. A training booklet is also available to help facilitators understand self-reliance groups and facilitators role in the group learning process. And then so that when it comes to me again, I say, "Oh, yeah, I can deal with that," instead of just avoiding it altogether, which then leads to no strength. To download all photos or videos related to this article, select the links at the bottom of each section. Participants are encouraged to reach out to their local Church leaders to find out when groups are meeting in their areas. And then Woody keeps fishing him out of the garbage can goes over there and every time he turns his back on Forky, Forky's trying to get to the garbage can to jump in again. And this is somethingI have this very distinct memory. And three of the roadblocks that I suggest were: misunderstanding our purpose, procrastination, and then lack of sustained effort. Try a Survival TIPP, Reduce Depression by Doing Things You Love, Managing Health Anxiety in Times of Stress, Deep Breathing: A Fundamental Part of Stress Reduction, Be Your Own Best Friend: Self-Compassion for Stress Reduction, Health Care Workers: How to Prioritize Your Own Well-Being, "My Patients Are All Stressed! Show Notes:2:18- Pressed To Our Limits5:44- Attacks on Identity8:28- Observers or Actors?11:51- Roadblocks to Personal Competence14:46- Tenacity and Endurance19:16- Accepting Stress24:06- Tolerating Negative Affect26:47- Anxiety and Panic Attacks33:52- Embracing Change39:05- Spiritualitys Impact on Resilience43:08- Beyond Help With Spirituality?49:22- What Does It Mean To Be All In? The new content, Finding Strength in the Lord: Emotional Resilience, is part of Churchs Self-Reliance Services training materials for Latter-day Saints and friends of the faith. Great first name, by the way. A training booklet is also available to help facilitators understand self-reliance groups and facilitators role in the group learning process. A new manual and videos are available for a course in emotional resilience offered by The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints. None of us are immune from lifes challenges all of Gods children around the world face stress and anxiety. And again, you offer some roadblocks that keep people from developing tenacity, and I wondered if you could speak to a few of those. It reminds me when our oldest son was in Boy Scouts, back when the Church was doing Boy Scouts, and he had to pass his first class swim test, which I think was like he had to swim 50 yards or 100 yards or something. And rigid thinking, we'll say, "Well, it's stinks in Orlando because it rains, you know, fairly frequently, and you can't have parades in the rain," . The new content, "Finding Strength in the Lord: Emotional Resilience," is part of Church's Self-Reliance Services training materials for Latter-day Saints and friends of the faith.Ten chapters cover topics such as building emotional resilience, developing . And thank you so much for spending your time with us. We provide the link to this third party's website solely as a convenience to you. But I wonderedwhat is it, David, that keeps us from embracing change? Elder and Sister Gong will be attending the brand-new event which will be full of motivation, entertainment, live music, food, and more. Please click the link in that emailto complete your free subscription. And how have you seen that in those that you've worked with? Jointly published by the Deseret News and The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints, its content supports the doctrines, principles and practices of the Church. David, my last question for you is what does it mean to you to be all in the gospel of Jesus Christ? . Grateful in Any Circumstance. It's going to involve some work on your part, and some effort and you're gonna have to learn a different batting stance and your arm might hurt as you learn how to, you know, do these different swings, but I will teach you how to hit curveballs.". I know the Lord knew we needed the blessings found in the self-reliance groups at such a time as this. Lori Harding, Welfare and Self-Reliance Services Manager. You talk in the book about several ways that people get in their own way of personal competence. "How do I build a hut that I can live in?" I think that's what we need to understand as human beings, we need to know who we are, we're back to the beginning of our discussion about identity, we are children of our heavenly Father, and He loves us, and we have 100% immense potential, and he's gonna help us reach that we don't have to do it on our own, we were never expected to do it on our own. And he's like, "But then, it doesn't matter what it is, if you give it a little bit more time you end up loving it." And what if we develop machinery that was protected from the elements? If you think that I just can't do this, there's no way that I can persist in this trial, then it doesn't matter how much strength you have in you, it doesn't matter how much you're actually capable of, if you don't believe you can do it, then you're done from the beginning, because you won't-you simply won't try. Scriptures General Conference Come, Follow Me Gospel Library Media Library Music Library Life Help Inspiration. You talk about how there was a study where these two researchers that researched resiliency, Connor and Davidson, they actually acknowledge the influence of spirituality on this emotional resilience and listed spiritual influences as the last of their main resilience factors. And then kind of as a follow up to that, I mentioned this to you before we got on the line, but I have a friend who has struggled since she was in her late teens with anxiety, and specifically panic attacks, and recently kind of had a resurgence of these panic attacks, and she said that she felt like, as a result, she was shutting down and kind of trying not to feel anything. A group of single adults walk together. Absolutely not. And how do we see Satan attacking identity now, more than ever before? Style Guide Note:When reporting about The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints, please use the complete name of the Church in the first reference. 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